I'm Joitroshia "Joi" Dupas. I live in Louisiana. I have two beautiful little people that I created myself and I love them very much. I wanted to be a part of the Sex & Relationship column because it is time that we as black women got all the way real about the highs, lows, misinformation, and everything else involved in being sexually active and dating while being a black woman in today's society. If we can't be honest with ourselves, who can we be honest with?